Monday, 13 June 2016

Did She Come? Here's How to Find Out

Get answers from her for your burning sex questions
Here's some awesome news: Women throw sex toy parties!
And in not-so-awesome news: Women talk about their sex life at these parties—but only because it’s too awkward talking about it with you.
In a study in the International Journal of Research, researchers found that nearly 95 percent of women at sex toy parties sought sexual information from the party host. Results showed that women turned to these hosts for intimate, sexual advice (like how to enhance their pleasure, boost their libidos, and achieve orgasm).
The study authors suggest that the parties provide a relaxed, nonjudgmental atmosphere for women to ask questions. And while the prospect of women talking about sex with each other is always welcome, shouldn’t you be a part of that conversation?
Jen Landa, M.D., Chief Medical Officer of BodyLogicMD and author of The Sex Drive Solution for Women, says that in order to initiate a post-sex discussion with her, the key is to open up with a compliment about something she does that blows your mind. That way it’ll ease the awkwardness for when you pop the questions you want answered, explains Landa.
Try the technique before serving up these five burning sex questions:
• What You Want to Know: Did she come?
How To Bring It Up: Tell her that it helps get you off when you see her orgasm, Landa says. That way, by letting her know you’ll do anything to see her climax—she’ll be more likely to be honest about telling you if she came.
• What You Want to Know: Is she up for trying new positions?
How to Bring It Up: "Place the origin [of the ideas] onto something else," says Landa. So if you’ve got a specific position in mind, tell her you had a dream last night about trying a hot new position. "By taking the direct pressure off of you, she may be more willing to try and recreate this fantasy," says Landa.
• What You Want to Know: Am I going too fast?
How to Ask It: Let her know how much you enjoy it when she’s on top and controlling the speed. If you tell her it’s sexy when she sets the tempo, it won’t be a surprise when you ask her about your thrusting techniques, says Landa.
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• What You Want to Know: Does she need more clitoral stimulation?
How to Bring It Up: Your first objective: Get her off before you get busy. After sex, tell her how hot it is when she climaxes during foreplay. "If you're already on the topic of clitoral stimulation, it makes it more casual when you ask if she's looking for more during sex," says Landa.
• What You Want to Know: Am I good at oral?
How to Bring It Up: The easiest way to talk about your below-the-belt technique is to bring up hers first. Say that you love the way she utilizes her tongue—and then ask her about what she likes. Once the topic is on the table, she’ll feel more comfortable giving suggestions, Landa says.

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